If there is negative energy between you and you are both finding you are stuck, then working with a counsellor can be a good way of exploring your options. A counsellor is not a referee though! Deciding to have couples counseling isn’t about finding a place to have a go at each other, hoping that a third party will take sides; it doesn’t work like that. Agreeing to work together on your relationship might be a rocky road but if you’re stuck by the wayside, it probably is time to shift a few boulders.  Contact me if you’d like to discuss this further.